Why do I fail at Interview and reasons for it?
Posted on 08 JAN 2017 Under Career and jobs Category
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Well, at some or other point we all have to face a situation where to open our mind and explore our skills in the Interview.
Whatever the job might students out coming every year are increasing rapidly. But unfortunately only few are cracking the interviews because the rest always are frightened.
There are following reasons:
Your hands get wet, legs shiver and you stammer. Fear is the top most reason that degrades you and makes a looser at the end of the day.
How to Overcome Fear at the Interview?
- Can you keep a mobile in your hand and lift your hand vertically up? Only for some time you can do so, until you place your mobile at a position you wouldn’t feel good. That is where the exact problem exists.
- Keep all your problems; phobias away from you don’t carry them every time.
- Take a deep breath when you are feeling fear and start conversation with intensity.
- Motivate yourself, write quotes on your strengths, weaknesses and try to overcome it.
2) NO PREPARATION
We are habituated of studying one day before exam; we apply the same theory here too. That is why we fail most. You cannot crack or learn anything new when don’t try it. Keep in mind that Rome was built in a Single Day. Edison did not get succeeded in a single try.
For every success there will be hundred failures behind it.
How to prepare for an interview?
- Allot most of time for preparation; hey I’m not saying to stick to books even I hate to take books when I was studying. I love Gadgets; I always love to play with that. There I found a solution for my preparation.
- Install all the PDF notes of your Preparation in your Smartphone, e-books, iPod whichever you stick to daily most of the time. Study one or two chapters daily when you open your WhatsApp, Facebook, Instagram etc.
- Memorize or sing all your lessons possibly when you are in the Bathroom instead of singing the Movie Songs.
- You can memorize when you’re in travelling and make a conversation with your fellow friend that you are well enough to answer any question quite better than him/her.
3) SELF DEGRADATION
Especially no one has to be there to degrade; we ourselves degrade by thinking that we are unfit for the job whereas our friend or other person who can communicate well can crack the job.
How to improve?
Firstly all you need to do is Believe in yourself and Love yourself more than that you can’t exist without you
- Stand In front of the Mirror and smile a lot, smile smart, smile as you like.
- Then you see a Crazy guy in you who is smarter than your girlfriend / boyfriend.
- Feel that you are the King or Queen for your life cinema, whatever the wish you made has to happen in your kingdom.
- Tell yourself that I CAN I CAN I CAN I CAN do anything what I want.
- “BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE THE HERO IN YOUR LIFE CINEMA”.
"NOTHING COMES EASY, IF IT COMES, IT MIGHT NOT STAY LONGER."
"STOP HARDWORKING, START SMART WORKING".
"TRY TO KNOW WHAT NOT TO DO, SO PLAN WHAT TO DO".
ALL THE BEST FOR YOUR BRIGHT FUTURE.